This post is truly dedicated to those a-holes who have made a fool out of me, making me think they are my real friends, legit y'all. But all they are are blood sucking, backstabbing, unbelievable creatures... Here are some examples of situations when your so-called friends are really nothing more than that...
TRUST IS BIG, MAN... IT REALLY IS
When you think you know everything about your friend, well think again coz at some point they have something against you, something they could never say or they just like making a fool out of you. One moment you are all close to them and second you find out, they've been talking about you behind your backs... FRIEND 101 (which I just basically thought of and could apply to you...) says "NEVER BETRAY A FRIEND..." It applies with keeping secrets or never make them sail the seas alone...
Trust is what forms relationships and it keeps them bonded. It makes relationships stronger and when it's cracked, especially to the point of no return, it's just impossible to even think you could return it back to normal. You might want to try at first, but if you have an emotional side to you and feel that everything in the world is forged in TRUST, then you might be at jeopardy since the world is already a place where you can never trust anybody. You never know who you could...
FOR THE B's: WE HAVE EARS TOO YOU KNOW!
You gotta be careful! NO, not you victims, rather the B's that talk and talk and talk.. Like for hours, may it be about the person your making fun of or another person, calling them names. But let me warn you B's... You never know who's actually listening. The person you're probably talking about maybe hiding under your bed sheets, bean bags or even under those little cracks on the floor/wall.
Yeah, I've had these moments... WOW! Just WOW! Cray-Cray moment!
We may look oblivious to you, but as much as you think we are that you, you guys are probably being double crossed too! JAMES BOND MODE ACTIVATE!!!
And besides, talking about another person while he/she is practically there is like a ticking time bomb. You think they don't hear you, but they are actually plotting something against you... DAMN! HAHAHA! As I said, CAREFUL SWEETIE... You might have swords thrown at you in about...I dunno, 3? No... Not minutes. Seconds!
I DON'T WANNA BE THE CRIER... BUT IT COULDN'T BE HELPED
When you find out that the person whom you trusted has just hacked you in half. The person who you believe was your friend, someone who could pick you up when your down, was a total hoax and all you wanna do is Avada Kedvra their face! But it doesn't come as easy as when you just go through a phase of planning your revenge, it comes with a bit of baggage.
Nobody goes through a relationship and ending it without a share of tears. If it hurts, a solution is to bawl out and wheeze while your Mom asks, "Sweetie, what's wrong?" "Leave me alone...", you say... You want everything to stop, collect your thoughts. And I attest to this, it never comes easy, especially when forgetting...
IS IT TIME TO PART WAYS? I THINK IT IS...
Instead of becoming plastic and fake, like your fake friends, it's time to get real... Tell them: "IT IS OVER" "WE'RE DONE" "ZAP!" If they ask, be blunt with them... Tell them: "Seriously?! You were a B, B! You lied to me! You made me feel like sh*t." It's never too late to tell them it will never work out. It may hurt but you'll end up hurting yourself more if you force what's not meant to be...
Adam Brody is just too cute and vulnerable here. Adam, I can't just be friends. I want something more. This chick' here in this GIF's stupid...
But if you're nicer than that, then forgiveness may be your forte. Though wounds take time to heal, never fret, we misfits will get better soon. We can get over it. At least we know we were the better person... So forgive and forget, I guess...
All in all, I think what's most important is to choose a friend who you could truly trust, even if it is hard. There's always a silver lining out there somewhere.
FRIENDS 101 (This may not apply to all. Hopefully it would)
1.)A real friend will tell you the truth, in your face but would never intentionally hurt you.
2.) A real friend would never talk behind your back or tease you with other friends.
3.) A real friend would understand who you are, what your preferences are and would never make fun of it.
4.) A real friend would make sure your okay in times of trouble or when you go through depression.
5.) A real friend would never fool around with your feelings and would respect the trust you have given them.
May the a-holes and B's learn from this and to those who have been victimized, you are not alone and you will not be like that forever. We could stand up soon enough and will laugh it all out! Remember that there are always friends out there that are truly real! And if you ever need a friend, I'm always here to talk to you...
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